Hiring a fake friend or fake girlfriend in Japan…

A Picture’s Worth a Thousand Words

I have a lot of interest in modern Japanese entertainment, from anime to the music, both recent and traditional, I love the art, culture, the natural landscape, flora and architecture, however; I have noticed a couple of points which start to remind me how alone and lonely we all truly are in this world. Two such elements, well, technically more than two, but I’ll focus on these two for the time being, one of them I’ll mention in a separate blog post, but for now, the one I’ll be focusing on is the concept of hiring a friend, girlfriend, or any particular social status you’re looking for. Yes, you heard me correctly, I said, HIRING, as in paying money for social connections. I’m not making it up, it’s true, real, and I really wouldn’t be surprised if it weren’t just taking place in Japan either; I bet it’s over here in Britain in its own form too. In fact, I know, from personal experience, how greedy dating websites have been, so I KNOW an organisation like this is very much a genuine issue for all of us, in one way or another…

https://bit.ly/2PyMggg

‘How to Hire Fake Friends and Family,’

title quoted from the above article on The Atlantic.

When we all get to the point in our evolution as human beings, the moment we all feel we need to pay money in order to make social connections proves to me just how alienated we all are as people. If you get to such a stage that no one can trust another human soul, and you have to money to ‘look’ as if you are not alone, then it proves my point absolutely. If that doesn’t prove we’re all lonely in this world, I don’t know what does!

So, since I’m a straight single man living in the United Kingdom feeling lonely, alone, trapped, alienated, isolated, I should ‘hire’ a girlfriend because I’m not going to be able to find the real out there, because you have to PAY for it, do you? What is this world coming, or indeed, already has, come to, when organisations like these are thriving? We shouldn’t have to have organisations like this, but the fact that they exist, should show and prove to the world, just how shameful we as human beings have lost the basic and simple concept of being able to relate to each other, to get to know one another, to know we can trust in one another. I don’t know whether to feel boiling up with fury or downtrodden in the lowest form of depression by the knowledge of the existence of organisations like this. To be honest, I feel it’s a mixture of both. I mean, what do YOU truly think of organisations like this? I’d love to hear your opinions… I wish more people, especially around my age of 28, can understand what organisations like these are proving what this world is being driven to, what we as human beings are being denied us, the fact that we feel we need to pay in order to socialise!

If we all started out as cave men and women, did we need to pay in order to talk to each other? Did we need to pay to prove to those of the opposite sex who we are and that we are trustworthy, genuine, care and would be interested to get to know them further? What kind of a world are we coming to here?

Me, Myself, and no Illusion

Kicking of the year 2020, feeling shattered and lost. As of February of this year, I’m 28 year old. I’m a male struggling to find people in my generation who are still sane living within the United Kingdom, it’s harder than it sounds, believe me… To be honest, these days I feel more like an alien, feeling like an outcast, because I feel like the people closer to my own age are becoming impossible to talk or write to. I feel people are losing touch with who they truly are, looking at life with common sense, using your mind to analyse. Nothing in life is a straightforward, what might look safe at first glace, is anything but once you research further. Delving into life taking the world for granted, taking risks when you have no idea what you’re getting yourself into. These concepts may seem perfectly adequate to someone as strong and hard as granite, but when you’re not, you like to look at life from an outside perspective to gain a greater wisdom, without condemning yourself to some unknown malady along the way.

So, if you can understand what I mean, feel the same yourself, find yourself completely misunderstood, alone, trapped, alienated, when all you’re doing is being true to yourself in a world full of lies, deceit and corruption. A world where only the evil in this world seem to thrive. Where the downtrodden struggle to cope with the oppression of our everyday lives. A world where we’re all merely slaves, or mice, locked in a laboratory cage, while eyes from above us watch over you to analyse and manipulate your every movement, according to their whims. Where the only way to escape is to drown your mind in your hobbies and interests. However; even then you begin to work out, it’s just not working anymore, the awareness of this oppression is just too strong. The need to communicate with others your age takes a hold of you and you feel you must open up to the outside world, express yourself, let others know what you’re going through and how you feel.

So, if you can relate to any of that, or you’re just curious to find out more, just keep reading my blog, and I’ll explain and express myself in more detail. If you’d like to add a comment to any of my blog posts, please do so. Also, if you’d like to send me a message, or wish to write, just let me know. I’d love to be able to connect with others in my generation who still have sanity in the United Kingdom, if it’s population hasn’t completely gone crazy. The words, ‘Keep Calm and Carry On’, spring to mind… What a statement, needs a blog post all of it’s own that one does, what rhetoric to tow us slaves or mice all in line… Please don’t be shy, just send me a message, I won’t bite, it’s the people who’ve been sucked into the corrupt mind zombies in this country, or world, who might…